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My First Time Trying Airbnb Was a Nightmare

The Airbnb Nightmare

My best friends and I are used to staying in hotels when we travel. We like the convenience and predictability of hotels. We know that when we arrive, our room will be clean and comfortable. That’s why we were so excited to try Airbnb for the first time. We thought it would be a fun and unique experience.

We found a great-looking Airbnb on the website. It was a spacious house with a pool and a patio, and it was located in a great neighborhood. We were so excited for our trip!

But when we arrived at the Airbnb, we were shocked. The house was old and dirty. The pool was green and the patio was covered in leaves. It was nothing like the house in the pictures on the Airbnb website.

To make matters worse, there was a huge spider and webs were everywhere. We were so worried for our furbabies and our infant.

We were so disappointed. We had traveled a long way to stay in this house.

Finding a Better Airbnb

The next morning, we were eager to leave the house and stay in another Airbnb, hoping it wouldn’t be disappointing, especially since we had to travel for 5 hours to get there.

We were lucky that the second Airbnb we booked was great. It was a beautiful house in a great resort location, and it was clean and well-maintained. We had a wonderful time staying there.

Why We Chose Airbnb

We also opted for Airbnb because of its broad pet-friendly options. We have five furbabies, and it can be difficult to find hotels that allow pets. With Airbnb, we were able to find houses that were perfect for us and our furry friends. We don’t want to leave them out, and it’s awesome to share the experience with them, after all, they are our family.

Lessons Learned

What I learned from my experience:

  • Be careful when booking an Airbnb. Read the reviews carefully and look at the pictures closely.
  • Don’t be afraid to contact the host before you book. Ask them any questions you have about the property.
  • If you arrive at the Airbnb and it’s not what you expected, don’t be afraid to leave. You can always find another place to stay.

I’m hoping that other people who are considering using Airbnb will read my story and be cautious. Airbnb can be a great way to save money and have a unique experience, but it’s important to be aware of the risks.

 

I’m an ISFJ (Defender): What Does That Mean?

Hey there! I recently took a personality test called MBTI and found out that I am an ISFJ. Everyone has their own unique personality, and it’s important to embrace that individuality instead of trying to copy others. Being unique means that you don’t lose who you really are. It’s totally fine to look up to others for inspiration. In fact, it can be a great way to learn and grow. But it’s important to remember that you are your own person. You have your own unique talents and abilities. At the end of the day, the best role model is God and Lord Jesus. In fact, the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 11:1, “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.” So, keep being your amazing self, and don’t let anyone dull your shine!

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is a personality test that helps people understand their own unique strengths and preferences. There are 16 different personality types, and each one is represented by a four-letter acronym.

My personality type is ISFJ, which stands for Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, and Judging. This means that I am:

  • Introverted: I prefer to spend time alone or with close friends and family. I get my energy from being alone, and I can be drained by too much social interaction.
  • Sensing: I focus on the present moment and concrete details. I am good at paying attention to details and remembering facts.
  • Feeling: I make decisions based on my personal values and emotions. I am concerned with the well-being of others, and I often put the needs of others before my own.
  • Judging: I like things to be organized and planned out. I prefer to have a clear idea of what is expected of me, and I like to know what is going to happen next.

ISFJs are often described as being kind, caring, and helpful. They are also known for being loyal and reliable friends and family members. ISFJs are often drawn to careers in helping professions, such as nursing, social work, and education.

Here are some of the strengths of ISFJs:

  • Kind and caring: ISFJs are naturally empathetic and compassionate. They are always willing to help others, and they are often the first to volunteer their time and energy to help those in need.
  • Loyal and reliable: ISFJs are known for their loyalty and reliability. They are always there for the people they care about, and they can always be counted on to keep their promises.
  • Attentive to detail: ISFJs have a keen eye for detail. They are often very organized and efficient, and they are able to pay attention to even the smallest details.
  • Good listeners: ISFJs are excellent listeners. They are able to focus on what the other person is saying, and they are able to provide thoughtful and supportive feedback.

Here are some of the challenges of being an ISFJ:

  • Can be shy or reserved: ISFJs can be shy or reserved in social situations. They may find it difficult to meet new people or to speak up in groups.
  • Can be overwhelmed by stress: ISFJs can be easily overwhelmed by stress. They may find it difficult to cope with change or unexpected events.
  • Can be overly critical of themselves: ISFJs can be overly critical of themselves. They may set unrealistic expectations for themselves, and they may be hard on themselves when they make mistakes.

If you are an ISFJ, you may find that these strengths and challenges resonate with you. I repeat everyone is unique, and no two ISFJs are exactly alike. Embrace your unique personality type, and use your strengths to make a difference in the world. ✨

If you want to take a personality test to learn more about yourself, I recommend the 16Personalities: https://www.16personalities.com/ test. It’s a free and easy way to get a better understanding of your personality type and how it affects your behavior.

Here are some words for you if you feel a little bit sad

Everyone desires happiness, it’s an emotion that is hard to explain but unmistakable when felt. However, life can be tough, and it’s easy to get lost in the daily routine and forget about the significance of joy. We must remember that happiness is our right as human beings. One of the reasons for our existence is to experience it. Sometimes, we get so consumed by our problems that we forget to appreciate the good things in life. If you’re feeling low and struggling to find a reason to smile, take a moment to reflect on the times when God saved you from trials and setbacks. Remembering the difficult times you’ve overcome can be a powerful source of motivation and inspiration. It’s a reminder that God has a plan for your life, and even when things seem bleak, there is always hope. So, take a deep breath, release your worries, and have faith in God’s plan for your life, which includes your happiness. Don’t let life’s challenges get you down. Instead, take a moment to count your blessings and trust that God has a plan for your joy. Remember, you’re here for a reason, and your happiness is a vital part of that reason.

When we face difficult times, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by sadness and despair. However, as John 16:20 reminds us, our sorrow can turn into joy. We may weep and lament, but ultimately, we can find comfort in the fact that our pain has a purpose. Our struggles serve to strengthen us and prepare us for the blessings that await us. So, if you’re feeling sorrowful, remember that your joy is just around the corner. Trust in God’s plan and have faith that your hardships will ultimately lead to happiness and fulfillment.

John 16:20 English Standard Version 2016 (ESV)
Truly, truly, I say to you, you will weep and lament, but the world will rejoice. You will be sorrowful, but your sorrow will turn into joy.