Posts in my thoughts

The Power of Language and the Tools We Use to Express Ourselves

I’ll be honest: sometimes, it’s difficult for me to convey my thoughts in English, since it’s not my mother tongue. But I’m incredibly grateful for tools like ChatGPT, which help me express my ideas in clearer, more precise language. While the words may be enhanced by this tool, the thoughts, the emotions, and the essence of who I am are still mine.

“Words can steal from you, but the meaning and idea can’t.” while words (and even tools like ChatGPT) can help improve clarity and expression, the heart of your thoughts and ideas remains uniquely yours. The meaning is untouchable.

There’s a misconception that using tools like ChatGPT somehow removes the “you” from what you’re saying, but for me, it’s about reaching my full potential in communicating. It’s not about being “perfect” with words, but about connecting in the way that feels most authentic to me. English may not be my first language, but it’s a global one, and I want to share my thoughts and experiences with as many people as possible—across cultures, countries, and borders.

I may not be a wordsmith or a linguistic genius, but I’m determined to express myself in a language that bridges the gap between myself and others. And while I may not be as fluent or as eloquent as native speakers, I know that my words, no matter how imperfect, can still have value and meaning.

So, yes, I use tools like ChatGPT to help me articulate my thoughts in English, not to take away from who I am, but to enhance my ability to share my perspective with the world. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about the language I speak, but the message I’m trying to send. And that message is still authentically me.

“The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.” — Ludwig Wittgenstein

A Chapter Closed, But Hope Remains: Thankful for Our Journeys, Wishing You Well

Once, I sought a kinder heart, and forgiveness for myself and others. My prayer was answered, bringing immense gratitude and freedom from burdens like guilt and doubt. I acknowledge God’s guiding hand and his unwavering forgiveness. With a lighter heart, opportunities opened up for me and even for those I once resented.

I’m not perfect, as anyone close to me will say. I wasn’t always known for my patience (“maldita” and “patolera” sound familiar!). But with age and faith, I embraced a gentle renewal. While a spark of my fire might remain, I choose honesty and kindness as my guiding lights.

Life’s experiences have taught me empathy. I understand the pain of hurtful words, having been bullied myself. Now, I choose my words carefully, mindful of others’ feelings.

Life unfolds in shades of grey, not just sunshine and rainbows. Negativity and competition exist, even among those we thought were close. True, it can be disheartening to see friends consumed by a “win-at-all-costs” mentality. But instead of getting pulled into that negativity, I anchor myself in a different truth: the transformative power of love and support, as embodied by Jesus. Just imagine a world where we uplift each other, celebrating each other’s victories and offering a hand up in times of struggle. That’s the kind of world I believe in, which I strive to create, even when faced with negativity.

My journey towards a kinder me is ongoing. There will be moments when doubt and negativity whisper lies, making it tempting to prioritize myself over others. But choosing kindness isn’t just about feeling good – it’s about creating a ripple effect of compassion. Imagine a world where we celebrate each other’s successes, not compete. I’m determined to contribute to that world, one kind act at a time.

With open hearts, may we all choose forgiveness, kindness, and understanding in a world that often forgets its power. ❤️ To those I shared journeys with, though our paths have diverged, a piece of you holds a special place in my heart. Praying for your happiness and growth wherever life takes you. While our stories may not intertwine again in this chapter, I hold the hope that in another, filled with understanding and light, our paths might reconnect.

Ephesians 4:22 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

Turning 41: Lessons Learned and the Importance of Trusting God

As I stand on the precipice of my 41st year, I can’t help but reflect on the incredible journey that has brought me here. It’s been a road filled with laughter, tears, triumphs, and setbacks, each shaping me into the person I am today.

Amidst the whirlwind of life, one of the most profound lessons I’ve learned is the unwavering power of trust in God. It’s a trust that has anchored me through life’s storms, providing a sense of peace and solace even in the darkest of times.

This unwavering trust isn’t about blind faith or passive acceptance; it’s about actively acknowledging God’s presence in my life and surrendering to His guidance. It’s about believing that even in the midst of chaos and uncertainty, He has a plan, and His plan is good.

Along with this newfound trust, I’ve also learned the importance of letting go of relationships that no longer serve me. Sometimes, we hold on to people who bring more negativity than positivity into our lives, individuals who drain our energy and constantly bring us down. Letting go of these toxic relationships isn’t easy; it requires courage, self-awareness, and a deep understanding of what we deserve. It’s about recognizing that we are worthy of love, respect, and support, and that we shouldn’t settle for anything less.

This toxic behavior extends beyond romantic relationships and seeps into our friendships as well. We may encounter people we consider friends who are only there for their own benefit, constantly putting us down and making us feel small. These individuals often use humor as a weapon of insult, their ‘jokes’ disguised as jabs intended to diminish our self-worth.

Letting go of these false friendships, much like toxic romantic relationships, requires courage and self-awareness. It’s about recognizing that true friends uplift us, encourage our growth, and celebrate our successes. They are a source of support, not a drain on our energy.

Embracing this newfound freedom has been liberating. It has allowed me to cultivate relationships that nurture my soul, connections that inspire me to grow and become the best version of myself.

As I embark on my 41st year, I carry these lessons close to my heart, forever grateful for the wisdom they have imparted. I continue to trust in God’s unwavering guidance, knowing that He will lead me towards a brighter future. And I embrace the power of letting go, moving forward with a heart open to genuine connections and a spirit that refuses to be dimmed by negativity.

To those who are on their own journeys of self-discovery, I encourage you to embrace the lessons that life throws your way. Trust in the power of faith, let go of what no longer serves you, and open your heart to the boundless possibilities that lie ahead.

33 Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” 33 Don’t be fooled by those who say such things, for “bad company corrupts good character.” 33 But don’t fool yourselves. Don’t let yourselves be poisoned by this anti-resurrection loose talk.